I just wanted to write you a quick note as the dogs and I wrap up the preparations for your birthday tomorrow. It sounds a bit strange to me to be celebrating your birthday more than four months after your passing, but I decided that it will make me happy to celebrate you – and the special love that we shared.
We are going to start the day with a trip to Doggie Fun Land in Ferrysburg. After dropping the dogs at home, I’ll pop over to Orchard Market to pick-up a big old porterhouse steak and some of those little cupcakes that you always enjoyed. I debated about baking a cake for you, as I did every year, but I’ve been doing really well with my blood sugar lately and I don’t want to mess that up.
In the afternoon, Pal has an appointment at Harborfront Hospital for Animals. He just turned nine this month and he’s due for his annual physical. It just seemed appropriate on your birthday to take an old man to an appointment with a doctor. Paladin graciously offered to fill in for you.
After his visit, we’ll stop in at the City Farmer to pick up a box of peanut butter bones for the dogs. They are still Sue’s favorite food to play with, and she teases Pal and I mercilessly when she has one in her mouth.
Then it will be home to make dinner. I’ll grill up the steak just the way you liked it – marinated in Worcestershire sauce and seasoned with salt and pepper. I’m going to split it three ways with Sue and Pal. I’m also going to share the cupcakes with them. You should see Sue and Pal on a sugar buzz! When I came home from your memorial service, I put the leftover cake on the kitchen counter while I changed. When I came back into the kitchen, there were two happy looking dogs laying on the kitchen floor with some cardboard and plastic wrap between them. About half an hour later, the two of them were running around the house like young pups – playing with all of the toys, teasing each other, barking at each other, and just having a great time.
After they eat their 9:30 treats, the three of us will snuggle in together on Pal’s couch for our moment of Irish Setter Zen. And we will sing happy birthday to you.
It won’t be the party that we’ve thrown for you the last several years. I haven’t invited anybody over, I didn’t buy balloons, or any of that party stuff.
It is still pretty lonely in the house without you, but as I promised you, Sue, Pal and I are taking care of each other.
Happy Birthday Dad! We will always celebrate your memory.